Bullying Siblings“I have 3 boys. The oldest is 12, the middle 11 with ADHD, and the youngest 7. The oldest often bullies the middle child, especially in front of friends. How can I handle these situations effectively?” — Lisa Dear Lisa, here are Positive Discipline strategies to address sibling bullying: Boys often compare, compete, and test boundaries. Some conflict is normal, some is habitual. Siblings seek attention, significance, and engagement—even through bickering or rough play. Recognizing these patterns helps you decide how to respond effectively. You can’t control the boys’ feelings or actions, only your responses. Use Positive Discipline principles to guide them rather than just reacting to incidents.
Family meetings are a powerful tool to teach conflict resolution and cooperation:
Focus on teaching effective social skills and fostering positive relationships:
When conflicts happen outside with friends:
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